By: Kevin
Brennfleck,Kay Marie Brennfleck and Honfoga Richard.
Are you wrestling
with a career decision, not sure which path to take? Are you wondering which
direction the Lord desires you to go? If so, you are not alone! Many Christians
struggle with making career decisions at various points in their lives. For
example, when Kay Marie was a sophomore in college, and a fairly new Christian,
she desired with her whole heart to do what God wanted her to do with her life.
As a communication major, she was considering getting a master's degree and
teaching at the college level. She was concerned, however, that she needed to
be in "full-time Christian ministry" in order to serve God most
fully. She was haunted by a vision of standing before God some day and instead
of hearing Him say, "Well done, good and faithful servant," He would
say to her, "Well, you did...OK." Perhaps you can relate to fearing
at some level that you are missing God's will for your career and life.
As Christians, we
desire to live our lives in a way that is pleasing to the Lord. We want to do
His will in all aspects of our lives--in the daily choices we make that govern
our actions and in the large life decisions we have to make. Scripture does give
us clear guidance regarding the moral choices we are to make as God's sons and
daughters, such as in the Ten Commandments and Jesus' Sermon on the Mount. The
Bible gives us instruction as to how we are to live our lives so as to be salt
and light in this world, glorifying God with our lives.
The Bible does
not, however, give specific guidance about many types of life decisions,
including making career choices. No where in Scripture will you find a verse
that will specify whether you should become an accountant or an engineer. Nor
will you find detailed instructions on how to choose a career when confronted
with multiple possibilities. Why doesn't the Bible address career choice? One
likely reason is because in biblical times, career choice was not an issue. Men
usually went into the family business--whether fishing or sheep herding or
carpentry or being a merchant-- and women usually got married and had babies.
"What should I do with my career?" was not a burning issue of the
times.
Today, however,
career decisions can seem overwhelming because of the sheer number of options
that are available--more than at any other time in history. We long to make the
"right" decision--the choice that proves to be good for us and that
is the one we believe God would have us make. So what can we do to make wise
career decisions that are within the will of God for our lives? Although the
Bible is not a manual on career planning and decision making, it does teach
some important principles that can assist you in becoming a wise decision
maker. These principles have guided our own career planning as well as our
career counseling as we seek to help others through the career decision making
process.
PRINCIPLE
1: Our first priority in life must always be to develop an increasingly
intimate relationship with Jesus Christ.
In our society,
we are concerned with accomplishments: what we do, how we perform, what we
produce, how busy we are, etc. We may judge the fruitfulness of a pastor's
ministry, for example, by the size of his or her church, the number of books
written, tapes produced, the presence of a television ministry, etc. Yet Jesus
said that all of this doesn't matter unless the person is intimately connected
to Him: "I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I
in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone
does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers;
such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned" (John
15:5-6).
Remember that
Christ calls us to "seek first the kingdom of God and His
righteousness" (Mt. 6:33)--not to seek what we can do for the kingdom of
God. Being rooted in Christ is a fundamental "prerequisite" to
finding God's will for your career. You will not be ready or able to find the
career path He has designed you for unless you are seeking Him first. He calls
you to love Him with all of your heart, mind, soul and strength--and to love
others as you love yourself. The more passionately you are pursuing these callings,
the better equipped you will be to hear His voice and to be the person you will
need to be in order to do the things God has created you to do.
Also, be aware of
some of the warning signs that your career (or prospective career) may
interfere with your relationship with Christ. For example, does your job
require you to act in unethical or immoral ways such as not revealing certain
information about a product or service to a prospective customer? Does your
work require you--or seduce you--to spend so much time at work that you have
little time for anything else including your friends and family, your quiet
times with the Lord, church, etc.? Does it tempt you to become prideful,
greedy, manipulative, etc.? In other words, is your work leading you away from
Christ rather than leading you toward becoming more Christ-like? If so, you
would be right in questioning whether this is a career path the Lord would have
you to pursue. As Jesus says, "What good will it be for a man if he gains
the whole world, yet forfeits his soul?" (Mt. 16:26).
PRINCIPLE
2: God has created you with the aptitude for particular skills and
abilities, and with the inclination toward particular interests. Your design is
the most important factor to consider in making career decisions.
John came from a
family that was involved in full-time Christian service: his sister was a
missionary, his brother was a pastor and his parents were Christian educators.
Although he had very strong artistic talents and interests, John felt pursuing an
art-related career wasn't an appropriate way to serve God, so he became a
computer programmer, working for a large Christian organization. Although he
enjoyed parts of his work, he longed to be using his creative talents. He felt
a part of himself was dying.
You are God's
handiwork. He created your inmost being, and knit you together in your mother's
womb. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Ps. 139:13-14). You have been
given work-related gifts that have been chosen specifically for you (Romans 12:6-8).
God desires for you to use the gifts He has given you. Working out of your
design will bring you satisfaction, will bless and enable you to serve others
effectively, and will bring glory to your Designer. To make good career
decisions you must have a thorough knowledge of your personality, skills and
abilities, interests and values. Without this knowledge, you are not fully
equipped to make good career decisions.
PRINCIPLE
3: Being a Christian does not exempt us from the responsibility to become wise
decision makers. Therefore, it is your responsibility to use your God-given
mind to learn how to make good career decisions.
If you wanted to
buy a computer, most likely you wouldn't pray about it and then just walk into
a computer super-store and see which computer you felt "led" to buy!
Most people would agree that to do so would be foolish. Instead, most people
would agree that it's best to research information about the different
computers on the market, identify their specific needs, investigate prices at
different stores for the computers of most interest, and then make a purchase.
Certainly prayer should be a part of the process, but God expects us to do our
part in making wise decisions, as well.
Learning how to
make decisions is a part of developing wisdom and maturity, both of which God
desires for us. The book of Proverbs is full of admonitions about the
importance of gaining wisdom to live a life that is pleasing to God. The
proverbs are given to us "for attaining wisdom and discipline; for
understanding words of insight; for acquiring a disciplined and prudent
life..." (Prov. 1:1-3). God desires for us to have not only spiritual
maturity and wisdom but also wisdom that relates to making decisions in this
life.
Career decisions
are often scary for people. There may be more than one good option, and
seemingly, much is at stake. Unfortunately, many Christians avoid their
responsibility to make the best possible decision in the situation. Instead,
they let other people or outside circumstances "make a decision" for
them. Circumstances or "signs" may be interpreted as God's will for
them. For example,
Jackie was
working as a file clerk. Bored and tired of earning minimum wage, she was
asking God to lead her into a new career. One day, when she left her job for
the day, she noticed a real estate office right across the street that had a
sign up: Wanted: New Real Estate Agents. Excited at the thought of a better
paying job selling houses, she drove home and found a flyer on her door advertising
a school to train real estate agents. She concluded this was God's answer to
her prayers. She became a real estate agent and found that she hated selling.
She left the field soon after entering it, feeling like God had led her astray.
While I don't
deny that God can lead through circumstances, Scripture does not support that
God wants to bypass our wrestling with making difficult decisions in
partnership with Him. (For example, Scripture gives many references in which
the Apostle Paul used logical thinking--combined with prayer--to determine his
direction. See Romans 15:18-24--especially verse 20--for one such instance.)
Just as you would
use computer magazines, knowledgeable computer users and computer professionals
to decide which computer would be best for you to buy, there are resources
available to you to assist you in learning how to do good career planning and
make good career decisions based on the right information about your design and
the world of work. God does guide us; He does, however, expect us to take
responsibility for using the minds He has given us to the best of our ability.
PRINCIPLE
4: Living out God's will for your career and life will require that you
take risks.
Stephanie's
mother had always encouraged her to "play it safe" and not take any
risks so that she wouldn't get hurt in life. This mind set had resulted in
Stephanie, a bright and creative young woman, being tremendously underemployed
as a receptionist. In one of her career counseling sessions she stated that she
was sure that as soon as she "knew exactly" what God wanted her to do
she would be able to take the steps to change careers.
Stephanie's
words, and those we have heard from other clients in similar conversations,
reveal that they are expecting God to give them a clear, specific vision of
what He wants them to do and exactly how they are to go about doing it. The
underlying reason is that they believe a career change will then be risk-free
and failure-proof. The hope and belief--often unconscious--is that once they
have their clear vision it will somehow magically become reality without them
having to face any of the fears that have kept them stuck in the past.
The problem with
this mind set is that God doesn't work this way. God doesn't call us to risk-free
living, because we wouldn't need to develop our "faith muscles." The
typical way God works is to impress upon our hearts and minds a need, a cause,
an issue or an interest that we develop a desire to do something about, and
then to lead us one step at a time. Jesus' call to His disciples was for them
to follow Him, and become fishers of men. They had no idea what was in store
for them! When Jesus called the Saul (Paul), He did not reveal to him all that
his ministry would entail or require from him.
The same is true
for us today! In our own ministry, and in the work and ministries of clients
and colleagues, we have seen how a sense of call or vision may not be very
specific and it's certainly not accompanied with detailed directions or
guarantees on how to pursue the dream successfully. God's guidance is given one
step at a time, and often requires that we take some scary steps of faith. In
the Parable of the Talents (Mt. 25:14-30), the point is often missed that the
first two servants were not told what to do with the talents that were
entrusted to them. The first servant "went at once and put his money to
work and gained five more [talents]." He used his own reasoning powers to
decide how best to work with the talents he had been given. He took some risks!
Learning to take
risks is an essential part of following God and living out His will for our
lives. Without risks, a person's life becomes a process of digging an
ever-deeper rut in which he or she stagnates and cuts himself or herself off
from all that God intends life to be. As Hebrews 11:1 says, "Now faith is
being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see." We know
that, as God's sons and daughters, we have already won in this life--we are
victors! God calls us to live courageously--to take risks in order to use our
gifts and bring salt and light to this hurting world. We have nothing to lose,
and everything to gain!
"Now to Him
who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to
His power that is at work within us, to Him be glory in the church and in
Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen." (Eph.
3:20-21)
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